Let it go! Yun ang sinabi ko sa ka dramahan nya kagabi. Di daw siya makatulog kasi nakapanood siya ng The Rite na movie. Parang batang paslit lang na natatakot matulog dahil sa nakanood siya ng isang horror movie.
Pero ng magtanong pa ako, lumabas din ang dahilan. Sinabihan siya ng boyfriend nya "Ano ba problema mo?" katulad din ng sinabi ng ibang lalake na nagdaan sa kanya. Wala namang siyang problema, madalas lang talaga mag problema-problemahan para mapansin. Kasi nga may pag ka ganun naman talaga siya eversince.
Let it go! Like what I always say when someone ask me what to do if their love failed them over and over. Letting go is definitely one of the most hardest thing to do in life, It's an easy to say but hard thing to do. I just want to quote the words that Joe D Mango wrote on love notes column in Libre Newspaper.
"It's sad but true, love doesn't always have a happy ending. There are times that we ask ourselves why do we have to find love only to loose it."
"Sinubukan ko na pero mahirap at bumabalik pa din...ayaw ko, masakit, saka na siguro pag kaya ko na tanggapin"
Yun ang sabi nya ng pilitin ko siya na mag kwento tungkol sa mahiwagang facebook stat nya. Mahirap talagang iwanan ang salitang pag asa lalo pat bagong tuklas mo pa lang ito. Yun na yata ang pinakamasarap na bagay na pwede mong gawin habang lumulutang ang isip mo. Pipikit ka, tapos babalik ka sa kahapon, iisipin na sana ganito, sana ganon, masarap talaga at siguradong ang salitang asa ang kukumpleto sa araw mo.
Sabi ko nga sa kanya "Mahirap talaga umasa, pero yung lang ang pwede mo gawin pra masatisfy ka"
Yun naman talaga ang sumasatisfy sa isang tao. Lalo na sa mga nasasaktan, nasaktan at gusto pang masaktan. Sa salitang asa, libre lang lahat! Walang limitasyon! Kung sariwa pa ang sugat, sigurado ang salitang asa lang ang katabi mo sa kama pag sapit ng gabi, medyo dagdagan mo ng konting luha pra mas masatisfy ka. Iniisip mo lahat ng bagay at umaasa ka.
It's been 14days since 2011 and I haven't write anything. Good day that I started lousy today, slowly waking up from bed. The only thing that's good today is what i read from the "Libre Newspaper", a mini news paper that's given for free for MRT passengers. Love notes section - Joe D Mango.
I love the way Joe dropped his lines to the letter sender (On finding someone...)
"Being blessed is not always about finding someone new to love but being able to continue to love someone who we have always had and nurturing that love every single day"
"I remember the boy...but i don't remember the feeling anymore"
Akala ko nung una, sincere yung nagpaabot ng sticky note na to. Yun pala...
The girl told me that she broke up with her boyfriend because she felt that she's not being appreciated anymore by the boy. She was claiming that she lost all those old feelings for the guy.
As you read from the note "Napagod na ako mahalin ka" she went weary and tired of loving the boy.
Things went pretty ugly when she told me that she is also falling for a guy who is sweet, caring and acting like he is someone that she really waited for. But they had a pretty ugly special friend relationship that became hell discovering that the guy doesn't like her. Saying "Sorry, I didn't mean to give you the wrong feeling"
Fuck! Sweet lang pala talaga si Guy, FLIRT! Eat my shit!
Bakit nga ba sikat na sikat ka sa facebook ngayon? Magpalit ka lng ng relationship status eh lahat sila eh nagkakandarapa na agad sa pag epal sa status mo. Wari bang si John Loyd at Shaina lang kayo na natsismis na na ospital sa kwento ng maraming tao. Parang teleserye lang tuwing gabi na inaabangan ang ending at kung seswertihin eh ma chi tsismis pa na me kung anong video tape kayo.
Its Complicated - Tee Emm
Nagpalit lng nmn ikaw ng status na "It's Complicated" Teee Emmm..Duh! Bat ila like pa nila? Siguro complicated tee em din yung naglike! Oh kaya gustong gusto nila na maging komplikado ang puso mo o relasyon mo dahil dun sila higit na mas sasaya. Ginagamet din to madalas nung mga nag tu 2 tym or 3 tym or 4 tym... ung maraming chinochorva, kasi nga komplikado diba. Minsan nga naisip ko sa pag fill up ng application paper ko ilagay ko sa relationship Others: Its Complicated - Teee Emm. Matutuwa kaya ung makakatanggap ng papel? Sikat!
Single
Eh bakit pag single naman dami nila nag-cocomment, Mula "Naks", "Single daw oh" hanggang "Oh wla na kayo?" , "Weeeh?", "Etchos!", "Go" at kung ano ano pang comment hanggang sa mauwi na lng sa kung ano anong usapan at mawala na sa topic na single ka na pakshet niloko ka lng at nasaktan ka..o kaya naman pakshet walang magkagusto sayo. Pwede? PweeeddeeeH!
In a relationship
Bakit nga ba kelangan pa ihayag na in a relationship with ____ ka na. Para bang may pakelam sila. Di ka naman si Kris Aquino na inaabangan kung sino nanaman ang ka chorvahan mo. Marami bumabati ng "Congrats", "Goodluck" at "Suotan Mo Helmet Yan!" Minsan ba naisip mo.. Ilagay ko kaya in a relationship with Anne Curtis Smith. Magiiba kaya ang Facebook pag ginawa ko yun?
Widowed, Separated and Divorced
Try mo kaya.. Try lang... Para maiba naman..Magkagulo kaya mga tao. Sigurado lalabas lahat ng mga pakelamero sa mundo at magtatanong sayo ng kung ano anong mga basurang tanong. Eh bakit ba nmn kasi kelngan mo pa yun gawin? Pwede nmn "Block This Person" o kaya delete your account na agad. Tapos mag sign up ka na lng at magpakilala ka na ikaw si Kokey o kaya si Kekay.
In An Open Relationship
Ito yata yung magandang relationship status na nabasa ko kasi siya ung pinakamahaba at siguradong mapapaisip yung mga tao. Mag ko comment ng kung ano ano...Open, parang restaurant lang. NOW OPEN.. Sigurado sikat ka. Sabi ng officemate ko eh para daw to sa mga NON-EXCLUSIVE lovers, yun bang mag karelasyon pero hindi naman. Karelasyon mo si ano pero hindi nya alam. Pag nalaman nya break na kayo.
Engaged and Married
Ito na yata yung pinakama epal na stat sa mundo na ginagamit ng iba kahit di naman sila credible para dun. Dapat pag pinili mo yung stat na to eh hihingi ung facebook "Please submit your wedding documents attached with the Wedding Ring. Thank You" Kasi me mga kilala ako sinagot lang ng nililigawan nya eh ilalagay "ENGAGED" tapos pag me ng yari na o kaya naka home base na eh ilalagay "MARRIED" Ayy... Landi!
"Sabi sa census may 11 milyon na tao sa Metro Manila. Paano mo malalaman na nahanap mo na yung taong para sa'yo? Maaring nakita mo na siya, pero yumuko ka para magsintas. Maaring nakatabi mo na siya, pero lumingon ka para tingnan ang traffic lights. Maaring nakasalubong mo na siya pero humarang yung pedicab...
...May mga maswerteng tao na nahanap na yung taong para sa kanila. May mga tanong patuloy na naghahanap at may iba na sumuko na. Pero yung pinakamasaklap, eh yung na sayo na pinakawalan mo pa."
"Ulan ka ba? Kasi lupa ako. Sa ayaw at sa gusto mo, sa akin ang bagsak mo."
"Maging cactus ka man, handa akong masaktan... mayakap ka lang."
"May MMDA ba dito? Nagkabanggaan kasi ang puso natin."
"May lason ba ang mga mata mo? Kasi nakakamatay ang mga titig mo."
"Ang true love ay para sa matatapang na tao lamang."
"Ipikit mo ang mga mata mo. Kasi sabi nila, kapag nakapikit ka, dun mo malalaman ang totoo mong nararamdaman.”
"Kung pwede lang mawala lahat ng kasalan sa pamamagitan ng yakap, habang buhay kitang yayakapin."
"Kung ikakasal ka saan mo gusto? Ako kasi sa tabi mo."
"Kung may uulitin ako sa buhay ko, gusto kong ulitin yung araw na nakilala kita. Kahit paulit-ulit. Kahit araw-araw."
"Alam mo, para kang tae... Hindi kasi kita kayang paglaruan."
"Ihi ka ba? ...Hindi kasi kita matiis eh."
"Para kang alak... ang lakas ng tama mo sa akin."
Apollo: Tumatangkad ka ba?
Irene: Hindi, bakit?
Apollo: Kasi dati hanggang balikat lang kita, ngayon nasa isip na kita.
Apollo: Lumiliit ka ba?
Irene: Hindi, bakit?
Apollo: Kahapon kasi nasa isip lang kita, ngayon nasa puso na kita.
Apollo: Bakit ba hinahanap ang isang tao?
Peachy: Kasi gusto mo siya?
Apollo: Hindi, kasi nawawala.
Irene: Bakit? Nawawala ba 'ko?
Apollo: Hindi, pero hindi ka kasi mawala sa isip ko eh.
Apollo: Bakit mo ba hinihintay ang isang tao?
Irene: Kasi takas sa bilibid?
Apollo: Hindi, kasi gusto mo siya.
Irene: Mahal kita.
Apollo: Sana pirated CD ka nalang para paulit-ulit mong sabihin 'yan.
Irene: Mahal kita. Mahal kita. Mahal kita. Mahal kita.
Apollo: Magdala ka ng salbabida.
Irene: Bakit? Maliligo ba tayo?
Apollo: Hindi, baka malunod ka sa pagmamahal ko.
Irene: Sino ako?
Apollo: Ikaw si Irene ko. Ikaw ang mapapangasawa ko. Photographer ka.
Irene: Mali. Pulis ako. Ikaw kasi ang most wanted ko.
Tanong ng isang tao sakin habang nagpapalitan kami ng mga kwento, Di naman ako napaisip sa tanong nya at deretsang sagot din naman ang binigay ko "hindi ko alam" sabay malalim na hinga at bigkas ko "Hindi ko naman kasi inisip yan ng mahalin ko siya"
Pangako lang naman kasi ang salitang "habang buhay" sa akin. At di ko kailangan mangako sa kanya kasi sapat na ang maraming lalaki na nangako noon sa kanya, nagbigay ng sing-sing at ipinangako ang langit at lupa, pati yata impyerno isinama na din, pati pagtama sa lotto isinama sa pangako. Oo kelangan naman talaga ang salitang "habang buhay" sa isang relasyon bilang pampasarap ng mga bagay, pero walang silbe yun kung di mo din naman kayang patunayan hindi ba? Eh me kilala nga ako mag asawa nag aaway sila pero naayos din naman nila, kasi totoo ang salitang habang buhay para sa kanila.
"Hindi ginagamit ang salitang habang buhay sa pagpili ng makakasama, masyado kang perpeksyonist at asa kung sa twina na lang sasabihin mo sa sarili mo na siya na ang gusto ko makasama habang buhay" reaksyon ko sa pagtatanong niya
Mahal ko siya, habang isinusulat ko to, yun ang alam ko. Patuloy kong natututunan kung pano mahalin at pahalagahan siya.
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blog ko to. bawal epal!
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"Because the girl has a choice, we must be her better choice"
We've been together for 7 months and 5 days. We've been into heartaches and yet we made it, and weathered the storm. Back then i thought that love happens in a single click but i was wrong.
Yes our relationship came on a single touch of our fingertips. My love is like a surprise gift wrapped into a newspaper so no one can say whether she is getting a cadbury or a tsok-nat.
I remember that day that Aihl told me "find someone to love, you got so much love in your heart" and then there it was.
All those EX's and Flings that makes me jealous and go crazy.All those memories of love that she shares listed in her memory. All those "naaalala ko dati...ay wag na lang" flashbacks. All those names that keeps bugging her that makes me become a lunatic. All those places that she has been in.
...I grinned on those days or should I say, I smirk.
"Because Michel has a choice., I must be her better choice"
I worked hard to get this far...we worked hard to get this far!
I am hurt and i tried to run. but i choosed not to. I want to shop heartaches, shop all you can. I was crying and crying, oh god i asked you, why you gave me this throbbing. I want to take my existence in this earth but i choose not - those ropes does not offers insurance in heaven. I feel like im not existing anyway, so i just want to fade away and live a life on my secret universe. I am like a flower dying, unappreciated and crying. Oh i cant wait for tomorrow. Please take away all my sorrow.
- This words are response to empressbuffy - "Unappreciated" entry. BLOG ON!
I was hopping around my network and it happened that i passed by on her blog
"Men from my time are DORKS! If the story of sleeping beauty happens today it would end up with sleeping beauty being sexually molested."
or Snow White and the 7 Maniac Dwarfs.lol
May be dahil sa past experiences nya. Siguro may nasalubong syang lasing at humihingi ng kiss mula sa kanya... Siguro pag napapadaan sya sa kanto nila eh me pumipito sa kanya.
Those DORKS are loosers my friend.
Don't loose hope on the fact that soon you'll find someone who will treat you well. He'll comfort you and treat you the best that he can. Yung susunduin ka after work Yung pupunta sa bahay mo pag masama pakiramdam mo. Someone who trully cares. You're pretty inside and out. It is not neccessary that you go on a gym just to keep your body in shape para may magkagusto sayo.
If love happens, Ma pa ano ka pa. Ma pa ano pang figure mo. Scarface ka pa. Pogi. Panget o Maganda. Love is love. No measuring sticks para sabihin mo na "Ay Gusto ko Sya!!!"
Oh well. I miss you my friend. Keep fighting. Soon you'll get what you deserve.
"You can never say that it is love what you have until you get hurt"
We remained strong after all those weird stuffs that happened to us this past few weeks. I almost thought that it was the end of the line but i kept praying and keep asking for answers.
God never fails
Someone told me that hurting makes love last., Yes hurting can destroy your love for one another but it can make you grow a little bit more. Just learn to trust.
Of course listening is a good idea., Quiet times together allows you to talk about the things that tries to break into your doorsteps. Learning to admit one's mistake is the best thing.
Loving someone is easy, but keeping a relationship that lasts is hard if you're the only one who wants to keep it.
Love is for 2 people who has the same eternal feeling for each other. I'm so blessed. I love you bhe..
"Put*** In* Mo, Di na tayo parehas. Magkaibang level na tayo"
Natatawa ako ng marinig ke Isko kagabi ang kwento na yun. Nakatapos ng EE ang kanyang girlfriend sa isang kolehiyo sa maynila at mula sa pamilyang hindi naman ganun karangya ang pamumuhay. Hindi naman ganun kahirap si Isko. Nag tatrabaho sa Ayala bilang isang computer programmer, me laptop pero mababakas mo ang kasimplehan sa kanya.
Matapobre. Sa hindi maipaliwanag na dahilan bigla na lang daw nakipag break sa kanya ang girlfriend nya. Sinabi nya sa akin na maaring may ibang nakilala ang girlfriend niya. Nung pumasa daw ito ng Board Exam para sa Electrical Engineer Licensing dun daw nag simula mag-gago lahat.. este bago.
May kinikwento na daw ang Engineer nyang GF na isang Engineer din na pinopormahan siya sa office. At sa hinali ni Isko - yun nga ang maaring naging dahilan ng kanilang break up
"Putang Ina Mo...Di na tayo parehas. Mag kaibang level na tayo. Ayaw ko na sayo"
Parang basura lang na tinapon si Isko ng matapobre nyang girlfriend. Ang masakit pa dun - Ung matapobre nyang GF pini-I pa sya. Maaring dahil sa pilit nyang paghingi ng paliwanag kung bakit kelngan nila mag break kaya siya na ganun.
Pero sabi ko nga. NAPAKA naman nun.
Nakakangiti naman na ngayon si Isko. Me GF na siya ulit. This time nursing naman., Tinutulungan niya pa lang sa board exam dahil nga nag re ready pa lang si GF nya para sa Board.
"Baka pag nakapasa yun... Iwanan ka din. Di na din kayo the same level" Pabiro kong wika ke Isko.
In response to Noi's "She's was the one" posted on his facebook notes.
"Ang pagmamahal hindi basta basta.. wag umasa sa nakikita lang.. pagsisihan niyo rin un sa huli.." -Noi
Kaliwa ka ba o Kanan magisip? Have you ever heard of the left brain and right brain debate?
It is said that left brain hemisphere are for people who arrange sequences, events, solves a problem or decides in an orderly manner, linear or logical way, more like analytical rather than emotional or seeing the big picture the right brain hemisphere is.
"Hindi ako sanay na walang boyfriend eh" -aurence said to me when we had a chalk talk last week
She is having problem on handling long distance relationship.. I passed by her on a chat and she opened up this topic. She was saying that she lost the feeling that she had before and yet she can't find the strength to let go of a love that she had before.
She said to me that she is afraid of being alone.Being left alone. She was used on having someone beside her. I heard this story before on a really close friend who is also having problem on her long distance relationship.
I heard from the mass yesterday - "Ang paghihintay ang sumusukat sa kaligayahan o kagalakan ng isang tao. Hindi sa kung ano yung natanggap nya dahil sa naghintay sya"
I told Aurence to let go. While there's love in their hearts.,let go. Don't let pain and bitterness be the turning point of their relationship. Soon she'll find answers. I remind her to be strong. And if being strong is not enough be stronger, Be more resilient. Find love from other people's heart. Don't live in missery and hate. Continue and be ready.
This was a message from Noi. Asking me to post this...Thanks tol! Keep writing!
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A lot of you may not know me as a religious person. Some of you know me as an agnostic guy. Who believes in God but has a lot of question about his own religion. This prayer might not mean anything for you. But it means a lot to me. As somebody said to me once. "You are a man and you have to stand up on your own two feet". This is my take on standing up, even though admittedly I literally shed a tear while writing this down..
Have you ever face the problem of differentiating point of endearment from pet names?
Of course point of endearment are for lovers, pet names are for your household pets.LOL
One of my friend had this thing.. She called her "Tatang" and the guy call her "Nanang", someway..somehow they are not lovers but they are great great friends. Many people thought that they would be lovers but as years goes by they were not.
I know a guy who has been inlove for years and trapped in because of expecting that these pet names are meant for something deeper. I know., the girl told me "I love him.,he is my friend" well i just laughed. Come on, you're playing someone's heart here(For me).
"Pinapaasa mo lang siya. Maaring sayo pet name lang yun pero deep inside sa kanya Point of Endearment na yun.. Marinig lang nya na tinatawag mo siya sa pet name eh pumapalakpak na tenga nya." How did i know? Naramdaman ko kaya yun dati..Motibo my friend!
Bob Ong wrote:
"Kung hindi mo mamahalin ang isang tao wag ka magpakita ng motibo para mahalin ka nito"
Pet names are for animals like dogs, cats, birds, etc.. Point(Terms) of endearment are for love ones.. Maybe this is something not that big but take a look at the big picture.
